Sunday, February 26, 2012

Week in Holland

Dear Familie, friends and Klein Kinderen,

Another week has flown by. We LOVE Sundays for several reasons, but one of the reasons we love them is so we can share our week with you. We love attending in the Amsterdam Ward because everyone is so excited to see each other once again. We met with the Ward Council this past week and the challenges the Ward Leadership is faced with is amazing.  The Ward Boundaries cover such a large area we wonder how the Visiting and Home teaching get done.  It takes the Bishop 20 minutes to get to the Chapel and he lives close. We are spoiled because we live just 5 minutes away...once again 'spoiled Americans'. 

I want to start off this email with a few traditions we have learned in the Dutch culture. When you go out to eat the tradition is to spend the WHOLE evening at the Restaurant.  I guess the night Opa and I dined at the Chinese Restaurant we must have offended them because we ate and left.  After the meal is eaten, you sit around and drink tea or coffee and visit for several hours. When someone has a baby, the family celebrates with friends by having beschuit's with butter and Muisjes, sprinkles' on the beschuit's.  If it's a girl the sprinkles are pink and white, if a boy the sprinkles are blue and white.  Beats blue and pink bubblegum cigars:) Everyone drinks tea. The LDS people drink Herbal tea. When we went into Ward Council it took me a minute when I saw tea cups on the table with tea bags and hot water.  They also eat ginger cookies...they love anything with ginger.  When we go to the grocery store there are tables where people sit around just visiting and drinking tea and eating cake or cookies. The picture frames are all in metric sizes...no 8x10, 5x7. I had a picture of Christ I wanted to frame and hang on the wall...but no picture frame to fit:) We find it cute to watch the teenagers, and others, not driving and texting but riding their bikes and texting.
There are no fences, very few, because there are so many small canals and ditches the animals stay within the water bound fields.  Sure makes for beautiful scenery without old broken down fences that we see in Utah.

Now on to the week.  Last Sunday we went to Gouda for a JoVo dienst.  This is a 3 hour meeting for the YSA that is held the 3rd Sunday of each month.  First is a fireside with a 'special speaker', then of course dinner.....these kids LOVE to eat, then a Sacrament Meeting.  One of the Speakers at Sacrament meeting was a young black man who when we walked into the meeting noticed a badge on his suit that said "Future Missionary." When he spoke we were surprised to learn that he was only 171/2 years old. His conversion story had me in tears.  He was living with his girlfriend, smoke, drank, drugs...171/2!!!!! One day he was at his friends house when the Missionaries were there.  He heard the message and saw a picture of the Temple one of the Missionaries had.  He touched the picture of the Temple and made the comment he wanted to go there someday...not knowing anything about the Gospel.  He told his friend he wanted to know more.  When he started taking the Missionary lessons he knew he had to live the Word of Wisdom and told us how miserable and sick he was for days trying to stop the smoking, drugs and alcohol.  His girlfriend tempted him in every way she could to keep him from  joining the church.  His friends all laughed and ridiculed him for his decision.  His family disowned him....171/2......but he WAS baptized.  He just glowed as he bore his Testimony.  He can hardly wait until he can go on a Mission and go to the Temple. WOW.....so many stories like that.  I am in tears half the time. DON'T ever take what you have for granted...I say that every week.  We ARE SO blessed.

Monday at FHE we had 15 in attendance...it was our best group ever.  We are trying to make the Amsterdam Centrum bright and Cheery so the kids will want to come.  I am taking fresh flowers to put on the table and have cookies and juice for them to nibble on.  We are trying to get a keyboard so we can sing Hymns before our Meetings.  Institute classes have been Studies of the Old Testament, but we asked if we could teach Eternal Marriage...because that is what we are trying to do...get these YSA's to the Temple. The first class was Wednesday and the kids seemed to really enjoy the new Topic of discussion.  We really laughed because one of the JoVo's came up to me on Wednesday and said:"Zuster deLeeuw, if you were 20 years younger and I was 20 years older I would want to marry you for your cooking." Eat your heart out Martha Stewart:)

Tuesday was Zone Training and I was informed just a few days prior that I was to cook for this meeting....40!!! One being the Mission President and his wife.  After my blood pressure dropped and I started breathing again I made a menu, said a prayer and did my best.  We had Salsa chicken Lasagna, green salad and Texas Sheet cake.  I will send a picture of all the pans lined up.  It must have been OK cause there were no leftovers.  This happens every 6 weeks.  Oh my. CES does mean 'cooking every second'.  Our Mission President has asked us to start reading the Book of Mormon tomorrow using a 'color code' for different things in the book.  Red for the words of Christ, Blue for words of his Apostles, Yellow for topics we could use in a talk ,ie, faith, repentance...and so on.  We received an email a few days ago telling us who our new Mission President will be...he comes in July.  President Robinson from Fillmore. Change is hard as we love those who we are serving with.  Several of the Senior Couples will be leaving as well, and that is REALLY scary because that will make Elder deLeeuw and I the 'seasoned' ones.  We have lots to learn:)

Well, I go back to loving Sundays.  The sisters in the ward want me to sing the Hymns in Dutch....I can't say the words but am getting so I can read better.  One of the Zusters told me today she would give me language lessons.  One of the JoVo's even said that the Dutch language was hard to learn, so I don't feel to bad.  Elder deLeeuw is trying to speak Dutch, but when people know you speak English they want to speak English and show how you good they can speak. He is trying. When we walk into church everyone is shaking hands, giving the traditional 3 kisses on the cheek.  Sometimes the meetings start late because everyone is visiting.  The books that Melissa sent are always in use.  There are 2 little girls that wait by the door for me so they can get the books first. I will take a picture of them in the next few weeks. We LOVE these people! Tonight the man that lives next door came into our apartment and visited for a minute.  We were so happy and told him to come back again and he said he would.  The lady on the left of us knows NO English so we just smile and wave at her.  Elder deLeeuw takes her garbage can across the street each week and brings it back and she appreciates that.  Just being a good neighbor is doing Missionary work.

One more funny thing and I will call it a night.  Last week when we were traveling to Gouda we went the 'back way' following the GPS. We were following a canal the whole way along a very narrow road.  All of a sudden 3 very large geese walked in front of the car and Elder deLeeuw did not see them.  He swerved to miss them, which he did, but we were all laughing making comment that we almost had Christmas Goose dinner early.  Not cows or sheep on the road....geese:)

We LOVE serving the Lord.  We LOVE the experiences we are having.  We LOVE the Dutch people. Thank you for your prayers.  We wish you could all come for a visit and experience the beauty and spirit we are.

Love, Opa and Oma
Elder and Zuster deLeeuw

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